Let's Get (Way Too) Personal! ep.1

Hey, guys! Long time no speak(? Write? Oh, well, I'm back.)

I'm gonna start a series of interviews, we'll call them our "Let's Get (Way Too) Personal!" episodes, so here's to number one!

Diving right into it... There's a couple I follow on Twitter, Jo and Elijah - absolutely lovely people! So I decided to give them a little interview, as best I could, with them living so far away. Keeping anonymous, but if there's anyone would like Twitter information, let me know! (And buy the lovely lady's packages, she's HOT as HECC.)

Also, please keep in mind, I did this interview over Twitter. The responses are exactly as I received them, in order to give an accurate representation of what they LITERALLY said in response to my questions, rather than a paraphrasing that wouldn't do it any justice at all.


QUESTIONS:

Backstory! What are your names, where are you from, favorite color, least favorite vegetable... Anything you think we should know!

• I’m Jo, I’m from Pennsylvania originally. I moved to Florida on my own when I was 23. I stop whatever I’m doing when I see a dog and lose my mind. I hate okra (unless it’s pickled) and both our favorite color is purple. Elijah lives in Winston-Salem, NC and he literally can’t stand onions. 

So, getting to the basics, where do you both fit as far as a sexual niche? (Dom, kitten, sub, switch, etc.)

• Elijah kind of favors being a dom but switches. I’m the opposite. I’m a sub but can switch too. I definitely appreciate that he takes the reigns as someone who has a lot of insecurity. 

And how did you guys meet, and how long have you been together? (Sorry, it’s a mostly sex-acclimated blog.)

• We kind of met through mutual friends when Elijah was going through a break up and we lost touch for some time then reconvened in 2017. It’s funny because Elijah talked me through a few dates and gassed me up but then we ended up together after hanging out a couple of times. We promised we wouldn’t have sex when we hung out in case we were too impulsive and botched the possibility of a relationship lol, but actually we hooked up and were pretty consistent since April 2017. 

What do you guys love about one another as far as being with each other?

• I guess in a dating sense and just spending time together that we literally laugh at the smallest things and have the same sense of humor. Elijah can make me laugh and make me calm all at once. He thinks he’s a dumb ass and enjoys that I enjoy it, he still thinks the fact that I shot milk through my nose over him saying his butt itches is an indication we’re soulmates. He’s made me pee myself laughing a few times. 

And what do you guys love about each other sexually? It can be a particular act that’s done, or just a general comment about your sex lives.

• He likes that we know just how to get each other off and have almost mastered orgasming at the same time. Elijah likes that we talk about exploring things and will usually always try it with each other and laugh about it if it goes bad. I enjoy that we have humor and can discuss our acts. Elijah is kind of down for everything. He’s so open minded and will explore mostly anything with me but I stand by the fact that the way he touches me during sex takes it to another level. He’s intimate and gentle in a consistent vibe even when he’s choking me and hitting me. Idk I’m just comfortable, I feel safe. I haven’t felt that with anyone else. Like real safety. 

Have you guys ever done anything sexually with one another that you’ve never done with another partner before? And if so, how did it come to be?

• We did DP with a dildo to prep for anal which I’ve never really done before. It kind of happened because Elijah never did anal with anyone else and was veeeeerrrry fond of it but I’m kind of fragile so we had to get creative on how to warm up. 

If you’re LGBTQ+, have you ever incorporated that into your relationship? If you’re heterosexual, have you ever thought to include some aspect of something outside of that into your relationship?

• I’m demi pan and we’ve discussed threesomes. Elijah wouldn’t mind bringing another girl in. I’m honestly open to any gender, but I think if we brought another dude in it wouldn’t be as comfortable as it were or would be with a female. Elijah is hetero but open minded. 

What makes you so comfortable to be as sexual as you are on a social media platform? Did it come from any aspect of exhibitionism, or did it stem from a money-based place?

• Elijah is super comfortable in his skin and in sex work and I’m comfortable with showing people. If they want to see or buy it it’s fun but he really thrives off the aspect of being seen and appreciated. It’s sick to see other people want to see or watch it. It took me a long time to be okay with showing my body off and I think for me it’s exhibitionism. It helped me to find other women who weren’t the common portrayal of beauty being unapologetically bare, but it was definitely a few years before I practiced the same pride. I was exploring the love I had for myself publicly long before I started getting paid though. At least on Twitter. I don’t do dancing to be seen, I do it to get paid. I still enjoy making money off my nudes though. 

Do you think that continuously advertising and selling your content has strengthened or weakened anything in your relationship?

• In a way I think it hasn’t really made any difference in my relationship but definitely being able to do porn together has been a bonding experience. Neither one of us has suffered any blows to our relationship from being involved in sex work, I really don’t think we’ve even had a single issue aside from the complaint of people wanting to be cut a deal on something or trying tho haggle. We’re kind of neither here nor there about it, it’s an everyday thing. Like pass the salt haha. In certain ways we are pretty advanced when it comes to being honest and never getting into anything we know would cause issues for one or the other person. I don’t think we’d have lasted this long if we had doubts or issues about the sex work. 

So, both of you are super attractive! (Sorry, over it, moving on.) Do you ever get into situations where one of you has gotten jealous about anything to do with selling/showing content? If not, how do you keep that consistent?

• Aww thank you!!!! Elijah and I discuss everything openly and have never really had any issue of jealousy pertaining to sex work, we sort of maintain the equilibrium by constantly keeping each other in the loop. 

Is there anything, as far as things that are not meant to be seen as sexual, that the other does in your relationship that turns you on?

• Elijah says, “Well I’m in love with her so literally anything she does turns me on, I’ve straight up made eye contact with her while poppin in a tampon and I could’ve fucked her right then and there.” Lmao. Dead ass I could just watch Elijah talk about something intently be it cooking tofu or skateboarding or how he used to carry around a backpack of corona and want to have sex with him. I would attribute that to my strong feelings for him that are non sexual, but I like the way he talks. How he moves his hands and handles everything with calmness. Being devoted to someone long term and having lived with them kind of makes you super observant in their mannerisms, I could just watch Elijah all the time. Smitten af. Lmaooooo.  

Is there anything - feel free to not share details! - that’s a complete turnoff? If there are, how have you learned/how are you learning to move forward with it?

• Elijah and I don’t really know any turnoffs that have been associated with each other. If I’ve ever been turned off it’s usually been me not feeling myself or feeling good enough. Never anything to do with him.  I love spit, one time he spit in my face though and it got in my eye and I got an eye infection the next morning when I woke up for work. So that stopped our spit fetish. 

And, final question! Full disclosure: the best sex you’ve had with one another?

• Lol Elijah says all our sex has been amazing but one of his favorites is the night we first met because we weren’t even supposed to bang. We vowed that we wouldn’t and we wanted to wait but there was so much tension we couldn’t help it. He always talks about how he literally fucked me into the headboard. I actually cut my hand open on the headboard and we beat each other up all night. That’s definitely one of my favorites too but also one night I snuck him into my landlord’s house, while he was visiting Orlando for work and only had literally 3 hours to spare. I picked him up at 12 after he had worked all day. We were back at the house at 1:45 and had sex for an hour with redbone on repeat and then I let him nap and drove him back to Orlando at 4AM. Also one night we had an argument and I was pretty upset and we were getting in the shower together. I was brushing my hair or something and he started kissing my neck and being emotional, it was all over for me. I think I came in like 20 seconds flat. He just bent me over and pulled my yoga pants down and kissed my neck and I was finished lmao

Yay! Open people! Thank you to them both!

I'd like to do a post in the future a little more about exhibitionism and voyeurism, because they're something I feel people have a strange negative connotation between someone enjoying being watched more than there is with someone watching, and it's a little silly to me! And sex work is VALID, so I will be writing another post on that as well.

I think that being open about your sexual life is absolutely NOT an obligation, so thank you so much to people like Jo and Elijah who are willing to be so open to help other people maybe explore their own sexuality a bit! Venture on, Pineapple Peeps!